planning for a holiday

Recently boyfriend and I are planning for a holiday to somewhere nearby. We are currently looking for a holiday that will not hurt too much of our wallet as well as not too taxing to our schedule. The fact that we are both living in different countries does give us another factor to consider on whether we should both travel separately to the destination or meet up then travel there together.

Right now boyfriend is suggesting that we go Krabi or Phi Phi Island and I want to go Hanoi. So that itself is another dilemma for us, we both want to please each other’s decision yet would like to go to our destination. Then we also thought about going on a cruise holiday to Phuket but I feel the price for cruise holiday a little tad too pricey.

With all these differences at least one thing that we have in common is that we both want to relax and enjoy each other’s company. At this point of time we are still trying hunting for a suitable place to go. Does anyone of you out there have any recommendations? Do you ever face a similar dilemma as we did?

Some pictures of Krabi that I found it off the Internet:

Isn't the sunset in this picture awesome?

The idyllic view of the sea

Our new endeavour...

We are on Facebook and on Warbook, getting very much addicted to this little fantasy game.

This blog is getting sidelined because of our work, personal life, and of 'together time'. We have now sorta worked our way into a comfortable regiment of meeting up. Its slowly getting more manageable (This is my POV, she might think otherwise) I am sorry blog, promise to slowly cut some slack and be more frequent in our postings, our garden.

We were together during the deepavali holidays, we were together for quite a few weekends - It was very nice having my darling lou por by my side day and night, night and day. Love her when she laughs, nags, snores, sleeps, eats, dreams, gets pissed, gets cute, gets vain, gets agitated, everything about her is good to me *grinz* Muakz*.

Well anyways for the next few weeks, the schedule is also jam packed. This weekend we will be attending seperate weddings in different states hence we are not meeting up, the following weekend, we will be holding each other tight and the last and final weekend of november, I will be in Indonesia on some business trip - Some opportunities which I hope to materialize and make me a very rich man.

I am now in my mid-20's and am able to amass some half a million ringgit in cash. What do i do to grow that? it seems NOT ENOUGH, how much is enough? HOW MUCH DO I HAVE TO MAKE to give my darling a comfortable life? to give myself a comfortable life? to be stable enough to become a pier for all those around me lending a helpful arm out if necessary?

When you think along those lines, you start thinking of what you will do with those money. Its just mind boggling how some fortunes are amassed and you start to wonder HOW DO I GO ABOUT doing that?

hahahaha I have side tracked, back to the main topic. WE are still very much happily together and will be for a long long long time to come. It is rough at times, but we will ride it out as long a we keep ourselves flexible & keep communication channels open.

*muakz* my darling.
Lou Gung...

birthday

It is probably a long, long time since either one of us updated on this blog. Many apologies to our readers from afar for this unprompted hiatus. We have both been rather caught up with our work, personal matters and also trying to spend as much time as possible to be together. Lucky us, God has been rather graceful to us, allowing us to have the luxury to spend time more then what we can ask for.

A little flashback to what has happened, I had a little birthday celebration over the weekend with boyfriend sometime during mid October. Although it would have been even more perfect if I can also spend it with my family as well but boyfriend's thoughtfulness and dedication towards my birthday has not disappoint me at all. His every thought and careful planning has only revealed to me how much he loves me and this relationship we have and I am even more glad to be with him.

For my present, boyfriend has given me the latest 8G iPod nano that allows one to watch video and play games on it. I've been hooked on Heroes since then, watching videos from the tiny little screen, squinting my eyes and subsequently getting a headache from “pursuing” too much of Heroes episodes from my iPod (or better known as Ah-Pod to boyfriend). Then we had a peaceful and quiet dinner at a Japanese restaurant at Hajime.

Perhaps the only unfortunate thing is that I did not manage to take any picture to post on the blog. Nevertheless, I am glad to have spent a memorable birthday with him as his beloved. Also, not forgetting my horrible experience at the airport, I missed my flight and had to buy another ticket to return under the advice of a st*pid officer only to realized from another officer that I need not do that. So i guess that makes it 2 unfortunate incident over my birthday weekend. What luck!

Slight updates...

Sincere apologies for neglecting the blog, but work has been crazy lately. The pressure is slowly intensifying as time passes, is this all life is? - work, more work and more work? hahahaha sometimes i wonder.

My darling's birthday came and went, it was a 'extended' birthday celebration - not really the 'big bang birthday celebration' i was hoping for but I think it went well. Its her first birthday together with me as a couple, and i am loving every moment of it. *Smilez* I love you darling and hope you like the pressie.

It all started with my darling 'forcing' me to give her the present prematurely, then I was again forced to tell her the dinner plans, then abit more forcing here and there (Tired, hehe) and abit of walking in some newly launched shopping malls. As I have said, its abit more like a extended celebration (Everyday for the past weekend has been her day, and my oh my she made full use of that power - hahahaha) I still love you darling.

Updates on the relationship, we are still as lovey dovey as possible and no signs of any decrease in that. I really am happy and am in love with this relationship.

*muakz* Forward we go darling,
Lou Gong....

Long break...

It has been a while since WE last updated our blog, I sincerely apologize especially to my baby lou por zai. It has been a crazy time at work for me - bottomless pile of work to follow-up, back to back meetings, stupid clients, and above all that - the feeling of needing to justify my new position (new pay)

On top of office work, my own personal 'vested interest' is taking up the remainder of my time. Wish me luck that i cash out on it. It will be quite 'lucrative' if you know what i mean hehe.

Now back to the unblogged weeks.

Was in Indonesia doing some training, catching up with some people, developing my network to hopefully something fruitful. I left Indonesia one day before the quake, on september 11th. May god bless those people affected and bring them some relief. *sigh* We are so lucky yet we sometime's complain (anyways that another story for another day)

The weekend after that, i was in my babies hometown. Walked into the door with 2 boxes of mooncakes (nice to see not nice to eat) sorry darling. *muakz*. I had my favourite beef noodle's, and some 'thunder' rice (which doesn't taste too bad *smilez* - acquired taste hehe). Drove my baby to the bus station in which i really really did NOT WANT MY BABY TO LEAVE MY SIDE. *sigh* I a so in love with my darling...

The following weekend, am down in Singapore to help my darling shift into her new place. Didn't do much, just managed the boxes and checklisted everything. The movers did the bulk of the work very professionally i might add (minor hiccups with a lost screw BUT all was good). The room is bigger than her previous room and a much bigger window (Quite nice) BUT no aircond =( hahahahahaha.... anyways all is good and i feel very safe with my baby in this new place. Lets just say that area is well protected - thanks to a very hardy VVVIP.

An update on our relationship. It is developing nicely and we are still so very much in love. I am falling deeper and deeper for my girl day by day.

MY girls big birthday day is coming up, i am cracking my head to do many many nice things for her to make her happy. I just love seeing her smile and happy. *muakz* I really do not know what i have lined up yet darling but i really hope you will like whatever i do and plan.

Forever and ever yours,
Lou Kung Zai